Are you “The One” in your family? The “go to” person, the caretaker, the problem solver, the counselor, the financial savior who everyone looks to make things right…ALL THE TIME?
They say you cant choose your family and that friends are the family that we get to choose, But how much does your familial and friendship ties weigh down on you?
“I’ve heard that everyone comes into our lives to teach us a lesson, and to help us rise above our self-defeating patterns, which we play over and over again. One of my most outstanding self-defeating patterns is the urge to fix everything for everybody. I’ve learned that most of us feel this way. And so we find ourselves racing around waiting on people, solving their problems, giving us some slight relief from our guilt of being normal. And then new problems crop up the next morning. Read Full Article Here.
Source: Huffington Post