Home » Lifestyle » Relationships » Dear Bossip: He Refers To Our Child As “It” & “Thing” & A Financial Obligation Dear Bossip: He Refers To Our Child As “It” & “Thing” & A Financial Obligation Jan 6, 2012 By KMJQ Share I dated a man off and on for almost 10 years. Our relationship was long distance and it was more off than on. In February, he moved to my city for our relationship and a month later I discovered I was pregnant. He freaked out and told me I had to choose between him and the baby I was carrying. I chose the baby. It wasn’t a hard choice. http://bossip.com/520497/dear-bossip-he-refers-to-our-child-as-it-thing-a-financial-obligation/ Magic Soul Singers Start Gallery Share Tags: child » financial » IT » obligation » Relationships » terrance dean Tweets Related To This TopicAboutAquarius#Aquarius are bad at expressing feelings, especially when it comes to relationships.XSTROLOGY#Aquarius are bad at expressing feelings, especially when it comes to relationships.BiIIMurrayNo matter how baddass you are, if a child hands you a plastic phone, you answer it.planetxanna@swaldman i think it makes people define _themselves_ by their relationships, too, which is hard for questioning/fluid ppl.