By now, everyone knows the signs to look for to determine if you’re a side chick. But there is a ‘new side chick’ who can be described as a place holder for the woman a guy really wants. Sure, you’re long term material, but deep down he has no intentions of ever marrying you. If he continues to tell you that he is not ready for a relationship but you give him all the benefits of a committed relationship, you may be the new side chick. If he marries someone else after he’s gotten himself together after spending the rough years with you, you may be the new side chick. Click here to read one woman’s story.