You ever hesitate, doubt yourself and lack confidence when you’re in a situation when you could have made that moment yours. It all starts with you believing in yourself. Here are three things you could do right now to feel confident and worthy of love. 1. Love yourself, because if you don’t no one else […]

Well, that fairy tale wedding has always loomed in the back of your mind, leading too many to jump at the chance of getting married without making sure they’re ready.  I’m not trying to scare you away from the commitment but before you jump, there are some things to consider.  Click here for More. 

<script name=”bpnext_embed_script” src=”http://www.blackplanetnext.com/resources/js/goodies/NEXT.embeder.min-ck.js?url=http%3A//www.blackplanetnext.com/embed/post/14c3091da3aef3f26bc4ae5d3e273143%3Fheight%3D304″></script><div style=”height:1px;margin-top:-1px;overflow:hidden;” itemscope=”” itemtype=”http://schema.org/Person”><small>Source: <a href=”http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com”>Blackandmarriedwithkids&gt;</a&gt; via <a href=”http://www.blackplanetnext.com/robert-washington”>Robert Washington</a> on BPNEXT</small></div>I love to think back on the days when my wife and I started dating and she still love the same things I did back then now. My wife still loves our favorite date spot “Hermann Park” it was great place for […]

To die for the revolution is a one shot-deal; to live for the revolution means taking on the more difficult commitment of changing our day-to-day life patterns. –Frances M. Beal                                           On this day,  using family, friends, or historical figures as examples,  I will take five minutes to talk to my sons about the importance of […]

One has to find a balance between what people need from you and what you need for yourself. –Jessye Norman                                           On this day,  I will take time to evaluate my sons priorities,  and if they seem to need reorganizing,  I will bring up the matter with them. Read more…

Knowledge is not power, it is only potential power that becomes real through use. –Dorothy Riley                                                   On this day,  I will take five minutes to talk to my sons about the possible ways they might use the knowledge they have. Read more…

Nowadays the art of conversation is lost. Many of us stay tip toeing around our partners on egg shells.  When we get clues as to what the other person may be thinking, if it’s not what we’d like to hear, it’s an immediate threat to our balance. *Enters insecurity left stage* the first inclination for […]

Many relationship experts swear by the, “date as many as you can,” concept, hell I believe it to be the truth to some degree; however what exactly does that entail? Yesterday while checking the forum of a women’s Facebook group I belong to, I read the following comment: “Had a convo yesterday with a new […]

Take a moment for yourself, yes, that beautiful one staring back at you in the mirror.