I really like the fact that you do offer advice whether some of us are in a real relationship, or some of us are not. I love it.

Moving forward, I wanna start off by saying I am a 23 year old black female who have a serious problem. I never truly thought about it until now, but I am Pam (you know from the TV show, Martin). For example, I have been seeing a guy for about two months. We’ve been having fun, but then out of thin air he disappears.