terrance dean

I was with a man for a year and a half. This man was an ex-con who was honest  with me about it up front. I believe people can change and in giving them a  chance, so we began dating. He was such a gentleman. He didn’t even kiss me or  try to have sexual […]

I have been friends first with my boyfriend for over 13 years and we  finally decided that we were made for each other. But, since then my friend/ boyfriend has not  let go of the other female numbers in his phone. I’m a little nervous about that  since he is my man now. And, I […]

I’m starting to feel maybe the love was never there. You see, I have been dating this guy, “Carl,” off and on for almost 2 years now. About 3 months ago he finally told me he  wanted to marry me and start our relationship properly with no lies, BS, or  cheating. None of that. Read […]

I am a 34-year old mother of 2 daughters, and I have been married for 14  years. For the most part, I thought my marriage was  going well, and boy did I find out how wrong and blind I have been. The nutshell  of the story is that my husband has had 2 job losses. […]

So, I’m in desperate need of your advice and whatever you tell me I’m gonna seriously listen to what you say. I have a boyfriend. His name is ‘Paul’ and January 19, 2013 is going to be 3 years for us being together. I’m 22-years old and he’s 42-years old. He’s also confined to a […]

I’m a 30-year old female who has been in a relationship for the past 5  years. As of the past year in the relationship I have  been completely stressed out due to financial issues (with no assistance from  him) and lack of attention. With this being said, sex hasn’t been much of a  concern for […]

My husband cheated on me a couple of years ago and as a result he had a  daughter with this woman who claims to be our friend. And, she was our Boss at one point. I found out  when she served him papers for child support. I was devastated after six years  of marriage. I […]

My sister and I stay in the same apartment building. She’s engaged to a man she’s been with for 10  years. She has two kids by him already. Okay here’s the dilemma: I’ve been  sleeping with him for the past 6 years and my son who is 5 years old is his son  but he […]

So, I have a 5-month old baby, and the whole time I was pregnant I was  working while my boyfriend/baby daddy sat on his a**. By the time my baby was born I had stopped  working because I couldn’t afford a baby and child care on what I was making.  Shortly after that my car […]

I recently met this guy. We had a great conversation over the phone and  he seemed sweet, but he made a few comments that pissed me off. I invited  this guy out for drinks with my co-workers. He stated that the women I worked  with looked like prostitutes. That was the ultimate turn off. I […]

*Big sigh!* So here it goes. I met this Jamaican guy 3 years ago. At that time he told me he had a wife. He said they weren’t legally married, but she was the woman he’d marry someday, which is why he referred to her as his wife. So, at that time I didn’t mind. I fell in love with him. He is a resident and he has a great job that pays a lot, but that didn’t matter to me as I used my money and bought him and her (his girlfriend in Jamaica) a lot of stuff. Even when he refused to take it I bought it anyways.

I’m 27-years old and married to a 34-year old West African man. He and I are about to have our 2 year anniversary in October and we have a son who is one years old. I know that going through my husband’s Facebook messages and text messages is a violation of privacy, but because I do not know any of his family, and none of his friends lives here or visits often. It’s hard for me to know who he truly is other than what he tells me.