I am 33-years old living with my 41-year old boyfriend (no kids with him).
I have a 17-year old and my 11-year old nephew.
I have been living with my boyfriend for 4 years (2 ½ years he was without a job). I had to take care of the household on my own. Recently, he found a job far from us (3 hours away). He lives there and comes home weekly / month end, and that is where I noticed there was something amiss. I tried to find out, but nothing.