I’m a Caucasian woman who has been with the same guy for 7 years. He’s Dominican. I say “been with” loosely because in that time he’s never really claimed me. At first I thought the reason that we never went out in public on dates and the reason he never introduced me to anyone as his girl was because I WAS morbidly obese. I thought maybe he was embarrassed and he thought people would make fun of him. Although we hung out (inside) and were intimate, he always made degrading comments about fat people.