About to get married or thinking about it? Well, here are 14 questions that couples need to ask each other and answer before getting married per Madamenoire.com
Will you have kids?
- You can’t predict the future regarding children, but you’ll want to know whether or not your fiance even wants to become a dad. Some guys are against having children and would rather have a future that revolved around the two of you. Others want a house full of babies. Make sure you know what he wants – and you too.
Is divorce an option?
- Everyone has a different opinion regarding divorce. Some are all for it while others would prefer to try out marriage counseling. Knowing your guy’s stance on divorce is crucial before you get married. If you hit a rough patch in the road, you’ll want to know whether the relationship is bound to end quickly, or if he’s much more willing to do whatever it takes to keep things going.
Who will manage the bills?
- Once you get married and you have joint bills, you’ll need to decide who will take charge of them. Things can get confusing when there are too many hands touching the finances. At the same time, you want to ensure that the bills are paid on time. Know whether or not you’ll have a joint account to pay bills as well as who will be the accountant, so to speak.
Is there more than just physical attraction?
- We all know the cliche that once a couple gets married, their sex life goes down the drain. If this were to happen, you’ll want to make sure that in your relationship, there’s much more than just a physical attraction. When your schedules don’t mesh or when you two have long, stressful days at work, you’ll want to know that not being intimate, temporarily, won’t ruin the relationship.
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